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Determine your parenting style after your divorce

When you go through a divorce and have children, you will have to work quickly to establish the new rules of the house. This isn't always easy for parents to do. Not only are you dealing with an emotionally trying time, your children are dealing with similar challenges. You might be tempted to let things slide for a while so that everyone can adjust and life can calm down. This isn't really a good idea since it might make it even harder for your children.

One of the most important things to do when you end a marriage is to decide what your new parenting style will look like. Think about the current rules and decide which ones are going to carry over to your home. There is a chance that some of the rules your ex instituted aren't suitable for your new life. Now is the time to make changes where it is necessary.

You need to be realistic when you think about what is going to happen. There is a good chance that you aren't going to be able to keep up with the same level of activity now that you are single. Be sure that you aren't taking on too much or you might get stressed out. Stress can make it hard for you to make logical decisions.

As time progresses after the end of the marriage, you can fine-tune what you want to happen. You might realize that you don't mind letting the children eat popcorn in the living room now that your ex isn't around to pitch a fit. That's fine. Making tweaks to the rules and letting your children know what's going on can help everyone to settle into the new family dynamic. Just make sure that whatever decisions you make are in line with the parenting plan.

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